Understanding the Coil
An IUD is a small, T-shaped device inserted into the uterus to prevent pregnancy. There are two main types: hormonal and copper. Both types have a string attached that extends through the cervix into the vagina. This string is crucial for checking the IUD’s position and for its eventual removal by a healthcare professional.
Can the Coil Be Felt During Sex?
In most cases, your partner should not be able to feel the coil itself during sex. The IUD is positioned inside the uterus, which is a pear shaped organ of muscle which is attached to the vagina via the cervix. However, the strings, which extend slightly into the vagina via the cervix, might occasionally be noticeable to your partner.
What Your Partner Might Feel
The Strings: Sometimes, your partner might feel the IUD strings. These strings are typically cut to a length that allows them to rest against the cervix. They can soften over time and usually lie flat, making them less noticeable. If the strings are cut too short, they might stick out and be felt more easily. Conversely, if they are too long, they might be more apparent during intercourse.
Sensitivity to Contact: Some individuals might be more sensitive and more likely to notice the strings. This is usually more about the partner’s sensitivity rather than an issue with the IUD itself. Using a barrier method, like male or female condoms can help in the interim, while the threads are softening.
What to Do If Your Partner Feels the Strings
If your partner does feel the strings and finds it uncomfortable, here are some steps you can take:
Consult Your Healthcare Provider: They can check the length of the strings and adjust them if necessary. Sometimes, trimming the strings slightly can reduce any discomfort.
Allow Time: The strings often soften and curl up against the cervix over time, becoming less noticeable.
Explore Different Positions: Trying different sexual positions can sometimes alleviate any discomfort caused by the strings.
Ensuring Comfort and Peace of Mind
It’s essential to maintain open communication with your partner about any concerns either of you may have. If discomfort persists or if you or your partner are worried about the IUD’s placement, don’t hesitate to contact your healthcare provider. They can ensure the IUD is properly positioned and functioning as intended.
Final Thoughts
Most couples find that an IUD does not interfere with their sex life. The device is designed to be a discreet and effective form of contraception. By discussing any concerns and consulting with your healthcare provider, you can ensure that both you and your partner remain comfortable and confident.
If you have further questions about IUDs or other contraceptive methods, feel free to reach out to your healthcare provider. They can provide personalised advice and support based on your individual needs.
